Scott Galloway recently discussed significant challenges facing young men during his November 3 appearance on TODAY. His latest book, “Notes on Being a Man,” addresses the crisis in purpose, connection, and identity among this demographic.
Current Crisis Among Young Men
Galloway highlights alarming statistics showing the extent of this issue. For instance, nearly 20% of men in their 30s still reside with their parents, and around 15% report having no close friendships. The disparity in suicide rates is also concerning, as men are four times more likely to take their own lives compared to women.
Education Disparities
The educational landscape reveals a marked shift, with women now earning nearly double the number of college degrees as men. Galloway noted that 70% of high school valedictorians are girls. This trend may be attributed to classroom dynamics that favor attentiveness and conformity—traits often associated with girls—putting boys at a disadvantage.
- Boys are often disciplined for behaviors similar to those praised in girls.
- This early disengagement from school can lead to later struggles in work and relationships.
The Effects of Economic Viability
Galloway argues that financial stability is critical for men, impacting their self-worth and desirability as partners. He mentions that 75% of women prioritize economic viability in a mate. Economic challenges remove traditional roles and contribute to a sense of inadequacy among young men.
Decline of Community Spaces
The decline of social venues has further exacerbated the situation. Since the COVID-19 pandemic, around 40% of bars and pubs have closed, reducing opportunities for social interaction. Galloway emphasizes that lacking community spaces leads many men to retreat into digital distractions.
Path Forward
Despite these challenges, Galloway believes solutions exist. He advocates for greater emotional involvement in young men’s lives. A critical factor is the presence of male role models, which Galloway identifies as crucial for guiding young men.
“Men my age need to step up. If we want better men, we have to be better men,” he affirms. This call to action stresses the importance of nurturing the next generation of men with guidance and support.
