Anthony Hopkins Chooses Forgiveness Over Resentment in Estranged Daughter Relationship

Anthony Hopkins, the renowned Academy Award-winning actor, recently addressed the estrangement from his daughter, Abigail Hopkins. Their relationship has remained distant for over 20 years. Despite the heartache, Hopkins emphasizes the importance of forgiveness over resentment.
Forgiveness Over Resentment
In a candid interview, Hopkins shared his thoughts on familial reconciliation. He expressed that he would not allow resentment to consume his life, even after his daughter declined an invitation from his wife, Stella, to reconnect. “If you want to waste your life being in resentment, go ahead. That’s not in my camp,” he stated.
Past Connections and Estrangement
Abigail, daughter of Hopkins and his first wife, Petronella Barker, has not been in contact with him for decades. They had a brief period of connection in the 1990s when Abigail appeared in two of Hopkins’ films, “Shadowlands” and “The Remains of the Day.” However, the relationship soured after the failed invitation.
- Abigail has not responded to reunion efforts for over 20 years.
- Hopkins has expressed his lack of judgment regarding their estrangement.
Reflections on Life and Family
When questioned about his daughter possibly reading his books, Hopkins mentioned he had moved on from that chapter. He acknowledges that life is filled with pains and separations, saying, “You have to say, ‘Get over it.’” He also revealed uncertainty about whether he is a grandfather, highlighting his indifferent stance towards the situation.
Embracing Sobriety
In addition to discussing family, Hopkins reflected on his journey to sobriety. He recounted a pivotal moment when he realized he might harm others while drinking. This revelation led him to seek help through a 12-step program nearly 50 years ago. The actor attributed the end of his alcohol cravings to a powerful internal awakening.
- Hopkins celebrates 50 years of sobriety in December 2023.
- He credits divinity and an inner life force for his transformation.
Hopkins continues to embody resilience and wisdom, using his experiences to live a fulfilled life while encouraging others to embrace forgiveness rather than resentment.




