Rhea Perlman, an award-winning actress, recently celebrated her 78th birthday on March 31, 2026. She is the proud mother of three children with fellow actor Danny DeVito. Although they are no longer a couple, Rhea and Danny maintain an amicable relationship and co-parent their children effectively.
Rhea Perlman and Danny DeVito: A Brief Overview
Rhea and Danny met in 1971 during a theater performance. Just two weeks later, they moved in together. The couple married on January 28, 1982. During their time together, Rhea earned acclaim for her role as Carla on the television show “Cheers,” winning an Emmy Award. The couple starred together in films, notably as the parents in “Matilda,” and co-hosted “Saturday Night Live” in 1983.
Their Children
Rhea and Danny welcomed their three children:
- Lucy DeVito: Born in 1983, Lucy has followed in her parents’ footsteps as an actress. She appeared in shows like “Melissa & Joey” and “Deadbeat” and performed on Broadway. Recently, she became a mother, welcoming her son Carmine in July 2024.
- Grace DeVito: Known as Gracie, she was born on March 25, 1985. Gracie prefers a private life, earning her MFA from CalArts in 2012. She mentioned that her parents encouraged her creativity without pressure. Gracie married Andy Giannakakis in 2019.
- Jacob “Jake” DeVito: The youngest, Jake, was born on October 10, 1987. He has ventured into the film industry as a producer and director. His experiences growing up on film sets inspired his career in Hollywood.
Navigating Separation and Co-Parenting
After three decades together, Rhea and Danny separated in 2012 but did not divorce. They reconciled briefly before officially separating in March 2017. In a 2019 interview, Danny expressed their positive friendship, saying, “We’re happy. Everybody’s happy.” Rhea echoed these sentiments in 2022, stating they have found a way to co-exist as a family while navigating their separation.
Despite their challenges, Rhea and Danny have successfully raised their children and continue to support one another in their respective careers. Their dedication to family remains evident, highlighting the importance of love and friendship even beyond romantic ties.
