On the latest episode of The Therapy Crouch podcast, singer Olly Murs opened up about his estranged twin brother, Ben. This discussion took place with hosts Abbey Clancy and Peter Crouch and was deeply personal, influenced by Murs’ experiences as a new father.
Discussion of Family Dynamics
Recently, Olly and his wife, Amelia Tank, welcomed their second child. This milestone prompted Olly to reflect on his childhood and family relationships. When speaking about being a twin, he mentioned the term “Irish twins,” which refers to siblings born less than a year apart.
Olly candidly acknowledged his ongoing lack of communication with Ben. He stated, “Yeah, we haven’t spoken for a long time.” He humorously added, “I say, ‘We were twins’; we’re still twins,” highlighting the bittersweet nature of their relationship.
Roots of Estrangement
The tension in their relationship began in 2009 when Olly chose to compete on The X Factor instead of attending Ben’s wedding, where he was expected to be the best man. This decision led to feelings of betrayal, with Ben expressing disappointment that Olly prioritized his fame over family commitments.
In a heartfelt moment on The Voice, Olly addressed the wedding absence, saying, “I was on X Factor and I couldn’t make his wedding because I was on the show.” His reflection indicates a struggle between personal bonds and professional ambitions.
Insights into Personal Life
Shifting the focus to his marital life, Olly shared insights about his relationship with Amelia. He described their marriage as evolving beyond the “honeymoon period” but filled with love and joy. He mentioned how the tone of his music has also changed in response to these life events.
- Previous Album: “Marry Me” – Created during the honeymoon phase.
- Current Album: Reflects a playful perspective on love and family life.
Olly’s upcoming appearance on Saturday Kitchen Live will showcase his culinary talents, illustrating his diverse career as he balances personal and professional challenges.
