Melissa Gilbert Regrets Age Gap with ‘Little House’ Co-Star Husband

Melissa Gilbert, known for her role as Laura Ingalls Wilder on “Little House on the Prairie,” recently shared her evolving perspective on her experiences during the show’s production. The actress, now 61, discussed the eight-year age gap between herself and her on-screen love interest, Dean Butler, who was 23 when they began filming.
Reflections on Age Gap and Childhood Innocence
In an Instagram post, Gilbert reflected on her past after observing the hashtag trend #iWasFifteen, which encourages women to share their experiences at that age. She expressed discomfort about being cast to kiss a much older actor when she was just a child. “The girl on vacation in Hawaii with her family is the same girl who was expected to ‘fall in love with’ an older man on screen,” Gilbert remarked.
Safe Environment on Set
Despite her apprehensions, Gilbert acknowledged the support she had while filming. She credited her mother and co-star Michael Landon, who portrayed her father on the show, for ensuring her safety. “I am so fortunate to have had them,” she noted, emphasizing that many young women do not share the same luck.
Reactions to Megyn Kelly’s Comments
Gilbert’s comments come amid controversy surrounding Megyn Kelly’s recent remarks about Jeffrey Epstein’s predatory behavior. Kelly’s insensitive comments sparked the #iWasFifteen trend, prompting Gilbert to urge caution in the way such topics are discussed. She emphasized the seriousness of childhood experiences, stating, “I WAS A CHILD. I WAS FIFTEEN.”
Insights from Dean Butler
Dean Butler, now 69, also addressed their age difference in a prior interview. He expressed a wish that they had been closer in age during their time on the show. “It would have been great if we could have had a little more common ground,” he stated, reflecting on their dynamic while playing a couple.
- Melissa Gilbert: Played Laura Ingalls Wilder
- Dean Butler: Played Almanzo Wilder
- Age Gap: Eight years
- Filming Start: Gilbert was 10 years old
- Butler’s Age During Filming: 23 years old
The discussions prompted by Gilbert’s reflections serve as a poignant reminder of the complexities surrounding childhood, age differences in acting, and the importance of safeguarding vulnerable individuals in the entertainment industry.




