In the realm of cinema, the new dark dramedy “If I Had Legs I’d Kick You,” directed by Mary Bronstein, dives into the complexities of motherhood and personal struggle. The film stars Rose Byrne as Linda, a psychotherapist who grapples with her daughter’s severe eating disorder, possibly Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder (ARFID). This disorder has escalated to a point where the little girl requires a stomach tube for nutrition.
As a single parent, Linda faces immense challenges. Her husband, Charles, portrayed by Christian Slater, is frequently away at sea. Compounding her stress, their Long Island apartment is undergoing repairs after a significant ceiling collapse, forcing them into a motel. The film’s visuals reflect Linda’s turmoil and distress, with cinematographer Christopher Messina keeping a tight focus on Byrne’s expressive performance.
Unflinching Characterization
Bronstein’s film presents an unflinching portrait of a mother at the edge. Linda’s interactions display her increasing frustration. She clashes with a staff member at her daughter’s treatment facility and dismisses kindness from fellow motel resident A$AP Rocky. Her colleague, played by Conan O’Brien, tries to guide her but is met with Linda’s resistance.
The tension builds throughout as Linda copes by self-medicating with substances, often leading her to disastrous decisions. Notably, she attempts to bribe her daughter with a hamster to encourage her to attend treatment alone. Linda’s character is complex; she vacillates between humor and desperation. This balance creates a captivating, if uncomfortable, watch.
Broader Themes of Maternal Struggle
“If I Had Legs I’d Kick You” emerges alongside another film this fall, “Die My Love,” both tackling themes of maternal ambivalence and societal expectations. The films reflect on how societal pressures shape perceptions of motherhood, particularly for well-off white women who struggle openly with their roles as caregivers.
Both films convey a sense of injustice within the parenting experience, provoking thoughts on the pressures placed upon mothers in society. They explore frustrations beyond the mere act of motherhood, hinting at deeper societal failures.
Conclusion
Mary Bronstein’s “If I Had Legs I’d Kick You” is a poignant exploration of a mother’s internal battles, marked by an extraordinary performance from Rose Byrne. It confronts viewers with a raw look at emotional chaos, motherhood, and the complexities of family dynamics.
